Yue Lao (Old Man Under the Moon)
God of marriage, matchmaking, tying red threads of fate

Yue Lao (Old Man Under the Moon)

Matchmaker God | Yue Lao | Moon Elder

Introduction

In the days before Valentine's, the line outside Taipei's Xiahai City God Temple spills clear across the temple plaza — every one of them here to find Yue Lao. This deity, fondly called Yue Lao or Yue Lao Gong, the Old Man Under the Moon, runs a single line of business: matchmaking. In his hand he keeps the ledger of marriages, recording who is fated to whom; once he ties the red thread, two people will find each other no matter how far apart they start. Yue Lao's popularity in Taiwan is astonishing. On Qixi, on Western Valentine's Day, on any ordinary weekend, singles crowd the major Yue Lao temples to ask for a red thread — and Japanese tourists fly in especially to do the same. Just look at the thank-you wedding cakes at Xiahai: by the temple's own count, more than 6,000 couples come back each year to give thanks, which tells you plenty about the old man's success rate. However far technology advances, the most powerful dating algorithm in the Taiwanese heart is still that red thread in his hand.

Legend & Origin

Yue Lao's classic entrance comes on a moonlit night in the Tang dynasty. A young scholar named Wei Gu came upon a white-bearded old man outside an inn, reading an enormous book by moonlight. Curious, Wei Gu asked what it was. 'This,' the old man said, 'is the ledger of every marriage in the world.'

Wei Gu pressed him at once: who was his own match? The old man flipped through the pages and pointed across the street to a grubby little girl in the arms of an old woman. 'Her.' Wei Gu was appalled — small, filthy, nothing like the bride he'd imagined — and in his fury he sent a man to kill her. The assassin lost his nerve and managed only to slash the child across the brow before fleeing.

Fourteen years later, Wei Gu married a beautiful young woman. On their wedding night he noticed a scar between her eyebrows, and when he asked about it, the truth came out: she was that very girl. He had run for fourteen years and traveled a full circle, only to end up at the other end of the red thread. A thousand years on, the story still makes one point: once Yue Lao ties the thread, not even a blade can cut it.

Worship Guide

What to pray for: to find a partner, to be granted a good match, to smooth out a relationship. One caveat — Yue Lao deals only in 'true affinity.' If you're trying to break up a couple or steal someone else's partner, he won't take the case.

How to pray: first introduce yourself to Yue Lao (name, birthday, address, and your current relationship status), then sincerely describe the partner you're hoping for — be specific, but keep it reasonable. Ask for a red thread to carry home in your wallet; don't wash it and don't lose it, and keep it on you until you meet your match.

Recommended offerings: red dates, longan, peanuts, and lotus seeds — together they sound like 'may you soon have children' — plus a little candy to sweeten the romance.

The most important taboo: never bring an umbrella to Yue Lao. The word for 'umbrella' sounds exactly like the word for 'to part.' And once you've found your match, remember to bring your partner back with a box of wedding cakes to give thanks — nothing pleases Yue Lao more.

Festivals

While there's no specific birthday festival, visitor numbers surge around Chinese Valentine's Day (7th of 7th lunar month) and February 14th. Xiahai Temple holds special matchmaking events during the Qixi Festival.

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Yue Lao (Old Man Under the Moon)

Yue Lao (Old Man Under the Moon)

God of marriage, matchmaking, tying red threads of fate

Yue Lao (Old Man Under the Moon)

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